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2 Huge Reasons Not to Wait to Develop Your Psychic Abilities

psychic abilities and intuition Don’t wait another minute to develop your intuition and psychic abilities (and, yes, we all have them):

1. If you don’t tend to your psychic abilities and use them, they can back-log inside you, creating pressure in the body that can lead to illness.

I’ve shared this story before, and it bears repeating. My friend Ariann was having terrible migraine headaches that seemed to have no relationship to hormones, diet or stress. She suspected she might be picking up on volcanic activity on the planet with her deeply empathic connection to the earth. She didn’t tell me that, and when I did some healing work for her, I told her I was seeing volcanoes exploding inside her.

Understanding that healing energy for the planet was backing up inside her, she put her own psychic abilities to work and found relief from her tormenting headaches. I’ve always remembered this—There can be a price for not recognizing and following intuitive guidance. Since then, I’ve diligently worked to recognize and develop my natural psychic abilities.

You have a more difficult time manifesting what you want, because you are less connected to your psychic abilities and intuition–your sources of inspiration.

Tashene (interviewed as part of my Women of Power and Spirit series) could see spirits when she was a child, but when she told her family, they told her she was lying. As a result she cut-off her natural psychic abilities as a medium, and began living a “normal” life until she was diagnosed with cancer and told she only had 3 months to live. In retrospect, she realizes that while she was disconnected from her gifts, she made choices that contributed to her illness.

A near-death experience helped her reconnect to her Divine guidance, and that powerful connection helped her find her necessary steps to heal her “incurable”cancer. That same guidance led her to the rewarding work of now teaching Levels of Integrated Conscious Enlightenment.

As you can see, it is well worth it to recognize and develop your natural psychic abilities. But how do you do it?

Here are 3 ways you can simply and easily develop your natural psychic abilities and intuition right now.

Healing the Inner Child…

healing the inner-child-1One of the Great Healing Secrets – the Inner Child

What great healers and mystics know is that in order to heal the wounds of childhood you need to go to where that child lives—inward—to the spirit of the inner child.

I had no idea how much the wounded child in me was directing most of my life. It was shocking really, until I started recreating and repatterning my childhood experiences.

The pain we experience from childhood can make an imprint that lasts throughout our lives, until we decide to heal the wound and the unmet emotional needs at their core–inside the child within.

One of my elders taught me about the significance of the inner child in the mystical realms. Whenever she took us on a journey to meet one of our power animals, stones or plants, she first brought to a place where we met and connected with our inner child.

At some point, one of us in the medicine circle asked why we always met our inner child before going on the journey.

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She patiently explained that it is the Spirit child within us that leads you confidently, and fearlessly into the realms of the Mystery.

She invited us to think about our own childhoods and how at our earliest ages we were deeply connected to God.

We had absolute trust the Divine and we saw the unknown realms of the Mystery as places of adventure.

If the Child Self has been wounded, the inner child of the adult makes decisions that don’t work.

sad-childSome years later, working with another elder, I came to understand that if the child has been deeply wounded, the spirit of the wounded child lives within us into our adulthood.

As we attempt to make adult decisions, a part of us is constantly trying to protect the inner child, by doing the same things we did as a child to protect ourselves–like leaving our bodies, fighting or hiding.

It is almost impossible for the adult self to ever feel completely successful or to be able to completely surrender to Divine guidance when you are so busy protecting yourself.

The protective mechanisms of our childhood become obstacles as adults.

Many of us try to heal the inner child in adult ways. If we never had a bicycle as a kid, we might own the best bicycle, motorcycle or car that we can afford as an adult. If we always had hand-me-down clothes, we might only wear new clothes as an adult. If we were constantly told to be quiet as a child, we might talk obsessively as an adult.

Whatever we are doing as an adult usually doesn’t heal the wound of the child.  Why? Because the child lives inside your spirit. To reach the child, you must enter the spiritual realms.

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In the mystical traditions, the way you help the adult is in healing the inner child.

One of my elders made sure I spent a month of my life dedicated to inner child work, honoring the challenges I experienced and making sure I met her emotional needs in the spiritual world.

I was in essence, recreating my childhood within the mystical realms. When I had completed my healing, I felt years of obstacles lifted.

Over the years, I’ve explained in many readings and counseling sessions about how to do the same inner child work my elder taught me. And recently, I decided to record enough guided meditations that I could walk someone through the entire process, that my elder so lovingly took me through.

If your inner child is in need of some deep love, healing, and repatterning of your childhood, this is one of the sweetest, life-affirming approaches I’ve ever encountered, and I’m delighted to be sharing it with you now.

When resistance does not mean stop

metaphysical meaning behind liver toxicityHave you ever used a clearing technique on some emotional pain and bumped into resistance? Did you think, “Oh my gosh, this must not be working,” and back off from what you were doing?

Did you find tears welling up and decide you just didn’t want do any more? Certainly, if I’m doing this right the healing should be easier than this?

I’ve been there. I don’t know how many times in my life I stopped the process before I understood that the release would occur if I stayed present to it. The resistance was the reason I was experiencing suffering.

Now I understand that when I meet resistance, I’m at the crucial healing moment.

Our tendency is to stop and run. It’s a natural response. We do that by distracting ourselves with our thoughts and our stories.

I was quite masterful at running away. I could find all kinds of reasons to avoid sitting still with myself and compassionately being present to my pain. In retrospect, it made complete sense. It was pain!

However, every time I ran away, I extended the clock on the pain I was experiencing.

Resistance is where we meet ourselves. It’s the stuff that would make us feel uncomfortable about ourselves and our experiences. Behind our resistance, we are protecting our regrets, resentments, vulnerability, feelings of shame, inadequacy—our fear that we were never worthy of the love we truly want to know.

The resistance is also where we keep our stories—our beliefs, patterns of behavior, and all our reasons for feeling bad.

Resistance is the way we try to protect ourselves from our own painful feelings.

The irony is that the more we resist being present to our resistance, the more uncomfortable we feel about our lives, without ever quite being able to put our finger on the reason for that pain.

The answer and the freedom live on the other side of the resistance. In order to get to the other side, the resistance needs to be met, and preferably with love. Your resistance gives way to love because love is what you have been seeking all along.

All those negative feelings behind the resistance are just waiting for you to hold them in your grace and compassion. Deep in your psyche a part of you is waiting to know that you love you unconditionally—that you love the shame, regrets, vulnerability, and fears of inadequacy right along side your love for your talents, beauty, service, kindness and any other qualities you value.

If you only love your positive qualities, you turn away a big part of yourself. You leave the most wounded part of you out in the cold, separated from your love. And those are the parts that are suffering inside you.

For a powerful story about loving the wounded parts of you, I recommend this beautiful self-healing story from this Woman of Power and Spirit interview with Lea Chapin.

When it comes to emotional healing, resistance does not necessarily mean stop. In my experience it means, “Please come closer. I need you. I need to feel your love.”

 

 

Alone – an Emotional Healing Moment

There are times in the emotional healing journey when you find yourself completely alone in the process. Those can be difficult times, and yet they are an important part of deep healing.

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I remember a very grim time many years ago when I chose to be alone over the holidays. My boyfriend went home to be with his family and rather than choose to be with my own family I stayed home.

I was feeling depressed because I was afraid I was pregnant. Feeling unwanted by a boyfriend that didn’t choose to spend the holidays with me, I was scared and sad. And being with my family to celebrate a cheerful holiday, just wasn’t something I wanted to do.

So I sat for days in my apartment and cried. I blamed him for abandoning me and bemoaned my lonliness. I asked the little spirit inside me to leave because I was not ready to parent a child when I was so emotionally unstable. Bless her heart, her spirit left me. That was good in that I wasn’t ready, but it only heightened my feeling of abandonment.

What I now understand was that I created this aloneness in order to heal my pain around abandonment. I abandoned myself, spending days ruminating on my pain and not giving myself emotional comfort—from me.

Had I been able to receive the gift of aloneness, I could have found true and lasting peace that comes from emotional healing within. I created aloneness because my subconscious mind knew my emotional healing had to come from my compassion (not pity) for myself.

In that regard, I was a slow learner. It took more than one of those occasions for me to finally realize that moments of aloneness were opportunities to learn how to comfort myself. Until I began to engage in true self-compassion and self-caring, I was a hungry void—looking for everyone around me to fill me—everyone except me.

Like most of us, I had to find new ways to be with the emotional pain I was feeling. I had to become the master of my own ship. And you can too. Here are some suggestions from the Chopra center to help you find new ways to address your emotional healing:

http://www.chopra.com/ccl/healing-the-source-of-emotional-pain

In Emotional Healing there are some voids that only you can fill.

But no one else could fill that void. No one understood me the way I could. No one could be more intimate with me than me. And here is what I didn’t understand: I couldn’t truly feel their compassion until I could feel compassion for myself.

 Self-compassion requires truth. You must be willing to see the truth of what you are creating, and rather than berate yourself, open your heart to the wounded one that created so much pain. Then you can finally feel the beautiful being underneath the pain.

If you have a difficult time feeling self-compassion,  discover how to access greater self-love, as you gently open to deeper personal truth in the Root of All Healing Audio program.

Ultimately, to get to the sweet one behind the pain, you have to honor all of you. As a very wise therapist once said to me, “You have to hold yourself.” When it comes to choosing lasting emotional healing, she was right.

What can I do about my underactive thryroid from a metaphysical perspective?

underactive thyroidI’ve received several requests to talk about the metaphysical meaning behind thyroid problems. I’m happy today to offer you the insights I received in meditation and to provide you with a few statistics as well.

When I started to write this article, I had forgotten a while back I did an article on the metaphysical meaning of thyroid dysfunction in general. There are some subtle differences between general thyroid dysfunction and having an underactive thyroid specifically. If you are curious about general implications, you can read that article here.

An underactive thyroid can create some very uncomfortable symptoms, as you may know:

Fatigue and lack of energy
Weight gain
Sensitivity to cold
Joint and muscle pain
Hair Loss
Constipation
Decrease sweating
Depression
Cholesterol problems
Slowed hear rate
Menstrual problems

Women, more than men, are likely to develop an underactive thryroid. And you should be aware that according to the National Institutes of Health, some medications interfere with thyroid production, so you should check out those medications and talk to your doctor.

http://www.endocrine.niddk.nih.gov/pubs/underactive/

According to the University of Maryland Medical Center this is the role of your thyroid:
The thyroid plays an important role in regulating the body’s metabolism and calcium balance. The T4 and T3 hormones stimulate every tissue in the body to produce proteins and increase the amount of oxygen used by cells.
Source: Thyroid Gland | University of Maryland Medical Center http://umm.edu/programs/diabetes/health/endocrinology-health-guide/thyroid-gland#ixzz3E50oSNgZ

Web MD does a great job of giving you insights into some of the causes of hypothyroidism from a medical perspective.

http://www.webmd.com/women/hypothyroidism-underactive-thyroid-symptoms-causes-treatments

As you know if you’ve read any of my articles, I believe that lasting healing occurs when we address an illness physically and emotionally/spiritually. It is wise to be educated and knowledgeable and also to become aware of any underlying emotions that might be influencing your body’s unbalanced state.

To support you in addressing spiritual and emotional patterns, I meditate to get to the metaphysical roots behind illnesses. Best of all, I recommend you become still and listen to your own inner wisdom. Compare that to what I share here, so that you can deciper for yourself what you perceive is true for you in your own emotional and spiritual healing.

I typically mediate first and then pick up Louise Hay’s You Can Heal Your Life to compare my impressions with hers.

Here is what I received in meditation about hypothyroidism.

Your underactive thyroid is about giving up too soon. It occurs when life seems too hard and you feel defeated. Perhaps you have not experienced your sense of purpose or the ease and joy you thought life would bring you. And while a part of you is still going, a part of you has given up.

You thought you had to get something right. A part of you thinks there is an emotional and spiritual quality of life and level of intuitive guidance that you need to attain. And yet, the artistic, creative part of you really wants to just experience what is there to be experienced.

Deep down, you really don’t want to be told what to do. You want to experience and discover for yourself what seems to work best for you. In a sense, it’s about the right to experience life, without it having to mean something.

 Here’s how Louise Hay describes the emotional root behind thyroid problems:

Humiliation. “I never get to do what I want to do. When is it going to be my turn?” And her affirmation for the thyroid encourages freedom of expression and creativity.

In essence, you are a free spirit sitting inside a box of your mind’s creation. Therefore, it is time to get out of the box and experience life without judging your performance. Once the creative spirit gets its time, your intuition will naturally come along for the ride, and you’ll feel your love for life—ultimately making life easier and more fun.

Discover how you can use your spiritual gifts to address the emotional root behind your underactive thyroid with a Healing Reading.

Your underactive thyroid, from a metaphysical meaning, just might be guiding you to trust the creative spirit inside you and allow those intuitive impulses to express through your creativity.